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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about.

Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

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Jun 5, 2018

Join us this week as we bring The Gentleman back tondiscuss our combined experiences at the most recent Pendulum party!  Oh, look at all the sexy people; where do they all come from!?!

Then we let Mrs Atom enchant is with tales of Femme, the First Ladies only night at Our Secret Spot.

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back,...

Jan 2, 2018


We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year! 

In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days spent with "The Gentleman", 2 different gay saunas, and 1 40th birthday celebration...

Nov 28, 2017

It's that time again!  To start this episode, we talk about Sexpo pros and cons and one of the major issues we see in Sexpo. (Last episode was all about the vendors.)

Later,  Mr. Atom talks about his experience at a sauna in Melbourne called "Wet on Wellington".  He goes into deep detail to describe the layout and...

Nov 7, 2017

Party season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks.  We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties! 

Then we talk about a VERY Halloween appropriate experience Mr. Atom had at a Brisbane Sauna. Was it haunted? Or was Mr....

Oct 17, 2017

Hello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)!

In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!!  We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked it and decided we should try it again... right now.

Then we discuss Passion...