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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about.

Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

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Jan 30, 2018

This is another episode where Mr. Atom was traveling and Mrs. A had to call in some backup... So, Mrs. Atom called in the ever handsome Gentleman.  

In this episode, The Gentleman discusses his first trip, with Mr. Atom, to a couple gay saunas in Sydney and he leaves no stone unturned in the tale!

So go grab a drink! ...

Jan 23, 2018

Have you ever wanted to set fire to your partner's loins just with your words?  Do you watch porn and say, "I could never say that to my partner!  I'd sound silly!"

Well in this episode we discuss the elusive dirty talk. We hit on the whys and the hows of dropping some dirty love bomb zingers.  From the phases of dirty...

Jan 16, 2018

With Mr. Atom travelling this week, Mrs. Atom and a new voice, Chastity, sit down to discuss some of the perils of dating. As a single woman trying to get back into dating after a bit of a hiatus, Chastity highlights some of the biggest challenges faced by singles and couples. Settle in for a listen and a bit...

Jan 10, 2018

We have a very special installment lined up for this week.  We got 6 of our closet friends together to play a game of "Never Have I Ever" and we recorded the whole thing!  

We coerced L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp, Lawrence and Jess from Our Secret Spot, and podcasting virgins, Wazowski and BJ to sit down with us,...

Jan 2, 2018


We sincerely hope that you have a safe and wonderful new year! 

In this episode, we review the week between Christmas Eve and New Year's Eve.  This ended up being an amazing week of 4 trips to Our Secret Spot, 4 days spent with "The Gentleman", 2 different gay saunas, and 1 40th birthday celebration...